(First off, I don't know how to spell.)
We had a really slow week, but it all picked up on Saturday and Sunday. Seriously this week was just full of biking to investigators houses and seeing that they weren't home then housing nearby. BUT Saturday came around and we had a dinner appointment with Narita san! She invited her son and a couple that lives nearby. It was great. We had the most delicious meal ever. Thai curry, mashed potatoes, pulled pork, hamburgers, corn, casserole and some macaroni thing. So nice! I love Narita san. (We are probably Facebook friends now too!)
Then Sunday. Naritan san has two cats and I am very allergic to them. I thought it would go away over night, but I was still way stuffed up on Sunday as well. I was sneezing like crazy and my nose wouldn't stop crying. We went to church and had a great fast and testimony meeting. Members got up and testified about changes in their life and how they are coming closer to the Savior. It was very powerful. The spirit was strong and we were all happy.
Then sacrament meeting ended and we went outside to see an excommunicated member (an ex-member who basically has a restraining order from coming inside the church) Members saw this ex-member and some ran up SOO happy to see him and began talking to him. Other members saw him and walked away, like he was a disease. Sister Haramai went up and sat right next to him and talked to him outside the church on the steps. She was so happy to see him, and wanted to help him in every way to come back. Another member came up and was even happier to see him. This member was devastated when the ex-member had to leave the church. She prayed that one day he would come back. She took this as an answer to her prayers.
Then a member saw two sisters, sitting next to what she thought was a problem. Something nobody should be around. She went up and kindly told the sisters that she should not be near the ex-member. (there is a lot more background about why this person is now an ex-member and in all reality it is probably safer and MAYBE wiser to stay away from this ex-member) but the two sisters, Haramai Shimai and another sister, saw it as an opportunity to cure.
After being told to get away from the ex-member, they were heart broken and went in a room to cry. During all of this my companion and I were in a lesson. We had no idea what was going on. We come out of the lesson and Haramai shimai was waiting to talk to us.
We talked to her for probably an hour about what we can do to help change the situation. Haramai shimai has been a member for about 2 years and there have been some trials that have been testing her faith. She shared with us some GREAT insights.
She said we look at people like an incomplete circle. It has one little piece missing, but 90 percent of it is there. You can choose to look at the mistakes or the part that is whole. The ex-member has flaws. Some that are noticeable just by looking at him, others that you will notice as you talk to him. BUT rather then seeing him as a disease, think WHY they are acting that way and help to cure them. That is what Christ did. He healed the lepers. Others ran away from them. But Christ saw them as a circle that just needs a little bit of help to be whole.
It was a great lesson for me. I was called to repentance hahaha.
Sorry this week was pretty average, but I am very happy and I love you all SOOOOOOOOOO very much. Be excellent to each other!
-Mecham Choro