Japan 3 months 1 week-23

Hello everyone!!! ( I hate starting letters. I sound like a loser hahaha good.) Anyways I am going to start off by questions for YOU. YOU means for whoever is reading this. I read a letter from a lady in the ward I am focusing on this week. Her name is Oda San. She is so awesome. In the letter it said "Are you better than you were last week? Are you working harder today? What are you doing to become better?" That is my question. You don't need to answer. I just thought about it this week, so I just want to make the whole world think about it now.

This week was super hard and super fun. My companion (elder tomita) decided that almost all of the investigators we have right now are not very strong. So we dropped about 12. This was SUPER hard for me. One of them included is Takahashi san. The guy we have been teaching for 3 months and who was supposed to be baptized 2 weeks ago. That was super hard for me to realize that he is not very strong right now and we could be putting our energy and focus in a better place. When I first heard this I felt like all of my work that I was doing with Brown Choro before Tomita Choro got here was for nothing. I felt like I was just wasting my time teaching him and that it was all for nothing. I was super upset, making it really hard for me to do anything. Tomita choro does something interesting where he only contacts students who are in college. This means that I have to work a lot harder and that we are talking to a lot of college students. So right after we decided to drop a lot of investigators we went to the University close to the Train station to go find a lot of college students to talk to. I was in a HORRIBLE mood and did not want to talk to anyone. Especially gaijin (foreigners). Tomita Choro really wanted to practice his English so he tried to contact a Gaijin. We say this one guy and Tomita Choro went to talk to him and the guy yelled "don't even think about it!" That was super awkward and I was even more upset. We kept walking and then we saw another gaijin. I made Tomita Choro contact him because there was no way I could do it. Well. I instantly had to change my mood. His name was Nicholas and his is from France. We talked for 3 hours. It started with Tomita Choro's broken English to try and start a lesson with him and introduce ourselves to him. I eventually had to get over my bad mood and talk to him. We talked sooo deep for 3 hours. He REALLY wanted to know about Mormons. He asked so many questions that I did not have the answer to. He kept wanting proof. He said that if a building fell of a sea was parted or a storm stopped (something like that happened in the bible) he would believe. I told him how I came to know that this church is true. I told him how it is all feelings. Because feelings you can't fake. He said that you can. And well that is true. If you are in a bad mood you can change it. And I had to change my bad mood when I was talking to him. But then I realized that the spirit is a feeling. BUT the spirit is a external force effecting our internal emotions. I told him that the ONLY way he can EVER know is if he tries for himself. He can't expect a miracle if he doesn't work for one. I told him stories about the miracles I have seen. About knowing that families will be together forever. It was really powerful. He asked if what I was saying was really true. It was this first time where I really had to think about what I was saying. Whenever I said that I know it is true in Japanese I would think about the words I am trying to say not about whether or not I mean it. It was all in English so I had to mean what I say. First props to all of the missionaries in the world who are serving a mission in their own language. Especially English. I have no idea how you do it. I testified that this is the true church and in the process of testifying the spirit confirmed to me that it is. It was really powerful. But for me only. For him he said that it is great that I know it is true but he thinks that religion came from drugs. He told me about his experience when he did shrooms in the forest by himself and how he felt the most religious at that time. Haha it was really fun talking with him. Sadly he is back in France right now. But I know he felt something. I know that what I told him was true. And whether or not he needed it or I needed it, talking to him was worth it. Today I studied about love and for real that is the ONLY thing that matters. If all of your actions are influence by love then nothing will ever be hard. I am trying to love everything I do and everyone I talk to, but sometimes it is hard cause Satan sucks. But I am doing my best. And that is all that matters. Working harder to be better this week than last week, better today, and always working to become a better person. I would love to report and tell you more stories about what happened this week that was awesome, but it was just a lot of biking and hearing people say (kekko desu) which means no thanks. A lot of rejection, but it will pay off. I love you all. Be excellent to each other. 

Jake Snow Mecham Choro. 

You are going to hate me but I have no pictures this week... we were really busy, but i will do better this week and send you a ton next week. Love you all so much. Sorrrrrryyyyyy. 

japan 3 months 22 weeks

We sweat when we eat our food.... Ramen.
My new companion 

The last meal with my companion. It was indian curry. The best thing in the world.

My distict.

I had my first transfer that actually mattered! Guess what?! I have a new companion! I am still in Odori but my companion is different. Please go ahead and guess then read on. That is correct! His name is Elder Tomita Keiki! (yes his first name is cake)  He is Japanese and from a city an hour away from Tokyo. He is the coolest. He is a convert of 3 years and he is 23. We are having so much fun. We are a lot alike. We laugh almost too much. I am speaking only Japanese now. Pray for me. Hahahah but for real I am doing sooo much better with Japanese it is blowing my mind. I learned how to not fear what others think this week. That rhymed... Awkward. Anyways. So I was really embarrassed about my Japanese for a long time because I feared that others would make fun of me because it really sucks. Well I had to get over that really quick because there is no other way for me to be able to do anything now. So 2 awesome things have came out of this. 1. I had to teach Tomita Choro the area and all of the investigators because he just got here. I am the Junior companion but for the first few days I had to be the senior companion. I had to decide what we were going to do, where we were going to go and who we were going to teach .That was a change. I had to do sooo much work and it made me so tired. I realized how I much I needed to work harder. There were a lot of thing that I could have done better when I first got to Japan but I am so glad I didn't do it. I don't have regrets about the things I didn't do because from not doing them I grew. Crap I rhymed again. So when I was making all the decisions I had to be confident with them. I couldn't half want to do something or be a little hesitant about it. I had to decide and go for it. This lead up to yesterday. 2. I taught 2 lessons all by myself. I have always had the back up of my companion for when I didn't know what to say, but it was different this time. We were teaching our one investigator Aoki san (whose full name is Green Blue Tree) and we asked her to read the book of mormon on her own. Well she said no. Straight up said that she would rather kiss her dogs than listen to the message we want to share with her. So that was way difficult. Tomita choro looked away and I was freaking out. It was just me. I decided to open my mouth and see if anything was going to happen. I didn't even plan on saying anything. I literally just opened my mouth. No, no words came to my mouth. I just looked like an idiot. So I started laughing and then I decided to talk. I told her about how busy I was in high School and how I didn't read the book of mormon as much as I should. I told her how tired I was and that I didn't make time to read it, but when I did it was like everything in my life was working better than I could have ever made it. I promised her (and everyone else in the world) that as she reads the book of mormon she will find her answers and her life will all work out. She said she has no energy so I made her pray on the spot for energy. It was insane. She prayed, I asked her to read it on her own and she said yes. Then we went to our next investigator. Sato san. The hardest person on the planet to teach. We taught him the plan of salvation. In the middle of the lesson sato san was going off on his rant about how Paul actually created the atonement. Yeah... no. So I listened and tried to decide what to do next but I was getting nothing. I turned to see if my companion had anything and... he was asleep. So I pulled out the book of mormon (that I can't even read) and had him read alma 5. We talked for a good 20 minutes about the atonement and the lesson ended with him saying thank you so much for coming over. I now understand. Whoa. He prayed and we left. Nobody was there to say "wow that was so awesome Jake! You did it all by yourself!" (yes I am full of pride and I love hearing things about me) So I said it to myself. I was amazed by how much work we got done when I actually tried my hardest. Before I held back a little bit because I was scared what others would thing. That is stupid. Fearing others only made it harder for me and for them. I am still learning how to get over yourself because I am still extremely prideful, but I am working my hardest and that is all that is expected of us. Sorry I am out of time, but I love you all! Thank you for being so awesome! Now go be a better awesome! When you give your best, your best gets better. Weeeeeee. Amen. Be excellent to each other. 

Japan 2 months 4 weeks-21

"What a pretty fire" Can you name it?

-howls moving castle.

#yolo #jonnystiles

It was raining and we had no umbrellas.

I love this picture. So funny. The sisters in my district.

Wow I am so cool huh?

Weeeeee

This last week we had a baptism scheduled for Sunday. Takahashi san just needed to have is interview on Saturday in order to see if he is really ready for baptism. We were waiting for him to finish the interview with almost 100% positivity that he was going to pass. Unfortunatley he did not. He said that he hasn't put in his full effort to read the book of mormon and to know that baptism is what he needs to do. Well that sucked. BUT it was a great learning experience. 1. You can't force conversion. You can't force someone to have faith or desire. You can't make somebody want to do anything. Just like my beautiful mother said, "the only thing in the world you have to do is die." BUT you have everything in the world to do that you WANT to do. We taught an investigator this week who almost had a heart attack she was so excited about agency. She LOVES that God cares that much about us to let us decide for ourselves. I never realized how amazing free agency is until she was so blown away by it. But it is so true! We have the knowledge that "we lived in heaven a long time ago it is true" this means that we had agency before. We knew about the plans and which one we wanted to follow. We also had a desire to follow those plans. We had wants before we came here and we have wants now that we are here. For some reason I never realized this until now. Basically I am just teaching myself as I write this letter. Elder Watabe said something this week that was so awesome. He said, "obviously we had to have fought really hard and really wanted to be apart of this gospel to be born in the situations we are born in, with the families we have, and the knowledge we have." Yeah that is pretty cool stuff. Anyways I will be a human now. 2. BE A HUMAN! I went on a split this friday with an elder who is known for how robotic he is. He is constantly thinking about missionary work and all he ever wants to do is talk about it. All of the time. Which is absolutely what we should do, but we are still humans and we need to realize that others are humans too, so they may not want to talk about the gospel all of the time. My companion said that if you don't be human with your companion and you don't talk about your likes, dislikes, families and good stuff, the people you contact will recoginze that you don't know each other and they will feel distant. I am definitely working on being a human. My personality likes to go run and hide when I am speaking in Japanese. But I am working on it. Okay I have a quick funny story. So we have this one investigator named Sally. I think I talked about him before. But we went to visit him this week because he called us and said that he read the pamphlet we gave him and after reading it he said he felt a lot of guilt and needs this gospel. So we went to visit him. We went into his tiny, sketchy apartment that smelt like smoke and sat down to talk. He began to talk about how hard his life is lately and how he really want to move to tokyo make a bar and have me and my companion be in his movie that he is going to make with Leonardo DiCaprio and we will be his boyfriends. Oh yeah he is gay. He came out and told us that he is gay AND that he is a little mentally handicapped. Oh. He then told us a story about how when he was in the whomb (hahahahahah that is a funny word and I don't know how to spell it) his grandmother was saying that he was going to be a very special baby. Well he definitely is. He said that he is special because he is going to make a religion. A religion where he is the God and everyone worships him and they get in Kimonos (japanese dresses) and dance. He then ran into his room to put is kimono on for us and dance for us again. He even turned on some slow jams and danced for us. He knocked over something off of his fridge and I tried not to laugh, but he heard me and said "stop! This is the best part!" I was trying so hard not to laugh. Well we were unable to talk about the message because he said that he just wanted to talk to us about how much he loves dancing and how he wants to be the dancing god. That was great. We dropped him. BUT mircale. We found a grandma who lives next to him who said that she has interest and wants us to come visit her sometime. That was pretty sweet. Wow that was a stupid line "pretty sweet" I don't speak engrish anymore. Anyways this was a great week. I learned a lot about doing what you want, as long as it is what the Lord wants to. Men are that they might have joy. If ice cream brings you joy (which it definitely does) then it is okay to eat, as long as it doesn't interfere with the Lords time. Stay awesome. I love you all. Be excellent to each other.

-Elder Jake Snow Mecham Choro. 

Japan 2 months 3 weeks-20

Bean Shower. Candy. 

Waterfall. We are so cool.

I only have like 10 minutes because we are going to the waterfall place (that I am going to send pictures of) for our district activity BUT I am going to type so hard. 

This week was really just crazy. Literally insane. So we visited this on Less Active member with a HUGE head. I mean HUGE. He looks like Wario. So we were talking to him and right before we were about to leave he said to be careful because there are a lot of weird people wandering around Sapporo lately. So we were walking home and this lady that we said "konbanwa" (good evening) to stopped us and said that she knows the sister missionaries. She talked to us in a VERY flirty way and one thing is she is about 60 years old. So she asked us where we were going and we said home because we are hungry and she said come with me. She walked us (very slowly) back to her apartment and then we had to tell her so many times that we can't go inside with her. So she had a hard time with that then she came back some plants and a present. She said that we looked tired and sweaty so she gave us a little towel. Then she started to touch my watch. We were getting way freaked out by her so Brown Choro asks her what her hobbies are. She said that she loves piano, singing, and educating little boys!!!!!!!! We freaked out! I had such a hard time not laughing. Right then Brown Choro just said okay thanks for today bye! And we left hahaha. We have met sooo many crazy weird people that have tried to kidnap us. Even a man. Yes we have a gay investigator. BUT yesterday he called us and said that he has been having a really hard time lately but from reading from the Book of Mormon and the Pamphlet that we gave him, he said that he needs this. He said he needs God and to feel forgiveness for things he has done in his life. It was really amazing. He is really interesting, and loves to surprise us. Like wearing a dress one day... Well we also met with so many investigators this week who have been expressing how weird they think prayer is. They think that it is weird that they can literally speak to God and that he REALLY wants to listen to our prayers. I know that that is true. I know that He wants to hear from us. Testifying to them has only made it stronger for me. Prayer is such an amazing thing. All we have to do is talk, and He will listen. It is amazing to see our investigators just try to do what we ask them to do. They have a lot of doubts, but they try and EVERY TIME they say that they felt something different. They may not know what it is, but they felt it. They are moving from prayer as something they have to do, to something they want to do. Interesting because that is struggle I have had. I found my prayers being repetitive and boring, but when I TALKED to God rather than just saying what I felt like I had to say, my prayers became meaningful and I wanted to pray. 

I am so sorry that this letter is so short. I promise that next week will be better. I love you all so much. Thanks SOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO much for the package this week family. I was SO happy. Seriously best day ever. Love you all so hard. Be excellent to each other. 

-Mecham elder choro yo

I had an idea this week. I want you all to do a miracle journal. I will do it too while on my mission, but I want you to record EVERY miracle you see while I am gone and then when I get back we will share them. 

Japan 2 months 2 weeks-19

This is the asian form of apple manzana. Does it make me beautiful?

Sakuria Dinner

This last week was one of the most emotional weeks for me. "I just have a lot of feelings!" So on Tuesday we had a Zone Conference that me and my apartment sang at. It was a lot of fun. We sang Homeward Bound and even made Evans Shimai cry! YES! Evans Shimai is the mission presidents wife and she is a musical genius. She said that she always cries when something is good and we did so good that we made her cry. Champions. Anyways at this Zone conference the themes we Faith and Obedience. Two of my weakest points, and most favorite subjects. We did some Mogi's (roleplays) and I was doing awful. I was saying really stupid things and I did not believe in myself at all. I doubted my abilities to speak Japanese and it showed. I was super angry with myself and everyone around me. They even put the Gaijin (people not born in Japan) in a spot where they have English translations for the new missionaries. So I was very alone. It was funny now that I look back on it. I probably looked like such a loser hahah. Oh! At this zone conference they do this thing called bean shower. Everyone in the zone buys candy/food/random stuff for the new missionaries and they all go in a circle and give you this stuff until you can't hold it. It was awesome. And naturally I have almost eaten all of my food in one day. Somehow this still did not make me happy and I was still angry the whole time. Then President Evans anounced that we are going to be doing a testimony meeting and that I am going to be the first one to bear my testimony. I was soooo mad. I got up there and right before I was about to say anything I realized how big of an idiot I was being. I was being so selfish and focusing all on myself. That is when I learned about getting over yourself. But getting over yourself does not happen all at once. I was still so sad and angry for the next two days. On Friday I finally decided to change my attitude. My companion even said this to me,"One of our investigators is so close to being baptized. He was supposed to be baptized this week and it is like you aren't even happy for him." (Maybe he didn't get baptized this week because I wasn't ready for him?) I finally decided to just get over myself and my problems because we all have them. Nobody is perfect (thank you Hannah Montana) so just get over yourself and help people. For my my japanese is a joke. Yesterday a member asked me where I am from but I thought she asked where my last name was from, so I sat there for a good minute not saying anything and then said "wakaranai" (I dont know) she was like you mean from utah? I said no. Then after a good 5 minute conversation of me trying to understand her I finally just said Utah. She laughed and walked away. I didn't figure out what she was asking until after we got into a members car to take us to the trainstation. It was so awkward. I always do that. I also told a guy that his dead grandma is walking around in his house still. (I was trying to teach eternal families.) Yeah Japanese is the greatest! But my attitude about it is what is making it fun. It is amazing how your attitude changes what happens around you. This does not mean that hard things still don't happen. I still am having the hardest time of my life, but I am having the funnest time of my life doing it.

Well that last email just decided to send itself... Anways this week was a lot of fun though too! Yesterday we had a dinner appointment with a member family. They are the Sakurai family. I had SO much fun. That had this awesome piano that they made me play (don't make me dance, don't make me sing SNL) and I even played a duet with the daughter. It was awesome! I would show you the video, but I cannot. I will show you in 2 years though! Basically this week was a lot of walking and me thinking to myself. I had to fight my thoughts and think really hard to make myself happy. But I did it! I also learned that Japanese people think that I am weird because I am not as weird as them yet. So basically when I come home from my mission I am going to be the biggest freak on the planet hahahah I am so excited. To sum up this week: be yourself, be weird, be happy, and "forever fan the flame of your faith, because all things are possible to them that believe"

 

(sorry this email kinda sucked and was really short. But be happy and excellent to each other!)

 

 

Japan 2 months 1 week-18

asian. 

That is the moiwa ward bishop spitting a cherry seed. 

cherry picking 

this was our activity. This 10 second game thing. Like minute to win it and mafia! woooo!

my district. 

some of the people that went 

who can spit this furthest game. 

went on a split with these 2 elders. so funny. they taught me a word for to poop outside. They have a word for that in Japanese. It is noguso. 

sushi. this was last monday.

Minasan Konichiwa! Everyone says that whenever they give a talk in church and then everybody says it back and does a little awkward bow, it is so funny. But I am WAY short on time today because we just had a zone activity so I am very sorry to those out there who read my blog and I did not email. I will repent and do better! So here is what has happened this last week:

Today I am going to talk about timing. Alliteration. Anyways. Timing is what I learned this week. So we have an Investigator named Takahashi San, who is a 23 year old guy. He was going to get baptized next week, but we needed to meet with him 3 times this last week for him to be ready this Saturday. He got really busy with work and was unable to meet with us the three times we had scheduled to meet with him. BUT it was all for a reason. We met with him yesterday and talked to him about Tithing. Something that we thought would be really hard for him because he just barely got a new job, and is struggling with money. On Wednesday when we were supposed to meet with him, he was a work and was pressured into drinking coffee. He said that from breaking a commandment that he said he would follow, he felt the help from God leave him. He said that he did not receive it as much and didn't feel as good. The timing was perfect because we were able to testify that we are always helped when we obey what God has asked us to do. He said he would pay tithing because it is what God has asked him to do, and he "doesn't want to let god down, or not feel His love." The timing was perfect. That is what I learned this week. It was a great experience. I am learning that there is a timing and a place for everything. We may not see it right now, we may not know why, but there is always a reason. We may not even learn what the reason was in this life, BUT we will learn. I also have been noticing God's love through everyone. God loves us so much. Think about all of the people you know and the people that you love and that love you. God shows us His love through the people we know and meet. It is all for a reason and for a time. Just trust Him. So also this week I had a split with 2 Japanese Elders. Onishi Choro and Kudo Choro. It was a lot of fun! It was 3 of us. I learned a lot from them. We also went to a cherry hunt on Saturday. We had an hour and a half to eat as many cherries as we could. It was sooooo good and so much fun. We found 2 new investigators this week through English Class. They are both females in their 50's and extremely nice. Their names are Auki san and Imamura San. We are going to teach Imamura san in a  few hours too! Weeee. Anyways so out of time, but enjoy these pictures. LOVE YOU ALL!  Stay cool kid. Be excellent to each other.

Japan 2 months- 17 weeks

Good Engrish! I Rove Engrish!

I got a haircut today, am I beautiful?

hashtag navajo taco

Hello It is Me Mecham Choro. Today I am going to start off by answering questions because they are at the top of the screen and I can see them. So we usually walk everywhere. We do love Odori park, but really we just walk everywhere. There is the place in Sapporo right next to the park that is called Susukino. That place is evil! Basically just all the bad stuff in the world in one little part of the city, so we aren't allowed to go in there. So basically we just walk around there and visit members that surround the place. There is this one place I love called Kinjin course. Which just means Golden people. We meet AMAZING people there. I love it. It is a little walk way with lots of trees next to the Sapporo train station. I will take a picture of it next time I go. You actually aren't allowed to contact people inside the train stations, so we kinda hang out around the parks and outside of the train stations. The only problem is the times we go. If it is around the time work gets out it is bad because the workers never listen to us. They just want to go home. Really the people that actually listen to us are the college students. Japanese people love public transportation. They don't really use cars, because there is nowhere to park. Everyone rides bikes everywhere! I love it. Really if you don't want a car in Japan, you don't need a car. You can definitely get around without needing one. The mode of transportation in Japan is walking. There are a lot of trains, buses, subways and underground tunnels. There is even an underground city. Yeah when you think that it is crazy during the day and there are tons of people walking around we just walk down the stairs and we are in an even more crowded place. There are always people moving and going somewhere in Japan. I love it. I have slowly been learning more about the culture. Most of the time I can't recognize the culture because I don't know what they are saying when they are telling me that I am breaking their culture. hahaha. I always say the funniest things to people. The other day some lady asked me in a store if I wanted a sticker on my juice and I said I don't have one. Hahaha I thought she asked if I had a Seven11 card. Also a fun little culture point. You never hand cash to people. There is usually a little sissy plate kind of thing that you put your money on and they pick it up from that. I remember my first time eating out and I handed the cashier my cash and she gave me a really weird look. That is basically how I learn the culture. By messing up hahah. Now I will do my weekly update! Wooo!

Monday- after doing emails last week I had my first sushi. It was not as good as I wanted it to be. Don't get me wrong I loooveed it, but I don't like wasabi... yet. So it was kinda hard cause they put wasabi on everything. It was fun though. Sushi places in Japan are SO loud. Apparently the louder they are the more delicious they are. Pretty fun stuff. They are way different than american sushi. I will learn to love it though. 

Tuesday- This was the highlight of my week. We meet a bearded lady!!! So we were getting on the tram to go home after teaching english class and this lady walks onto the tram. She had a thick beard. It was easily better than anything I could ever grow. She was watching us the whole time she was sitting next to us. Then she contacted us. We aren't allowed to contact women, but if they contact us it is fine. She said in english, "are you missionaries?" yes. " I am so happy to meet you! My name is Johanna! I am from Taiwan and I am a member. I went on a mission too!" hahahah we talked to her for a good 15 minutes before our stop and she just testified to us the whole time. She really loved her mission. It was so awesome so meet her. She was only in Japan for 6 days and she was actually going back to her hotel to pack to go home. It was pretty crazy stuff but a lot of fun. 

Wednesday- This is the biggest thing I learned this week. So I we were talking (the missionaries) about life and stuff and about how they have handled hard times on their mission. I was shocked by some of the trials missionaries have had on their mission. I asked how they did it. A missionary asked me,"Do you love God? Then you have no reason to worry." Whoa. So true. I was thinking how if I had to do some of the things those missionaries had to do, and was really doubting whether or not I could do it. They said the love God and they never doubt His will and His requests. I was not necessarily questioning the reason for doing certain things, but just trying to see the purpose behind it. The thing is we have no idea where we are being lead to our whole life. We are always being lead to people we need to meet and people that need to meet us. I learned that if we love God and follow His will and on His time, there is no reason to fear. Just enjoy the ride and trust Him. It was a great little wake up call. 

Thursday-I just missed Lake Powell this day. That is all I wrote in my Journal hahaha. But is was a great day!

Friday- we met with 3 investigators that day. All of them are really close to baptism. Their lessons were great and they really progressed. These lessons on Friday and Saturday lead up to something great on Sunday. On Sunday we had 3 investigators come to church! My companion said he has never had that happen on his mission. It was a great blessing. They all expressed how they know that this is what they need and where they need to be. It was great. Wow. I am out of time. Well to sum it all up, Trust God and everything will work out, and enjoy the ride.
Love you all! Be excellent to each other.